Base on Law Of Attraction, when you want for something so much, or you think it so much, you might able to get it.(Just my weak english explanation, if you really want to know deeper about it, so and google it, for sure you will get more)

So, for example, you have a very positive thought about your self, you always think of being love, have someone who admire you, then for sure you will have someone who will admire you, when you targeting on the same target, and you keep on think of her and on the same time, so, you will have the possible to get her, but at the same time, there is another guy who also think of her, you might have to compete with this guy for her, maybe face to face where you realize, or maybe in a way where you dont know about his existence, and he also dont know about your existence, so if your positive thought is more stronger then him, and she just at the neutral position where she have not think of anyone of you, then you will be the winner then.

But if you never thought of it, you will never have any chance with her. By the Law of Attraction, everything have it own power of attraction, but it only apply for positive thought. For example, when you thought of something like, i dont want to fail, this is a kind of negative thought actually, cause "DONT" "FAIL" is a term of negative, but when you think, I will success, then you will success by the law of attraction.

Flash back to all the thing i had go through lately, maybe this is all because of my negative thought, i should learn to think positively. Learn to be positive.

Law of Attraction rules:
1. Know exactly what you want.
2. Ask the universe for it.
3. Feel, behave and know as if the object of your desire is already yours (visualize).
4. Be open to receive it and let go of (the attachment to) the outcome.